Ourthing: Sunday Gems_The Occupying Army

Welcome to another episode of Sunday Gems.

Every Sunday is different because every time we encounter the Lord, there is something He wants to show us. There is a specific word, a specific lesson, a specific area where He wants to bring light. And like we established in the first Sunday Gem, everything the Lord will use to change our lives is found in His Word. So, if you are not already doing so, I want to encourage you to spend time in the Word of God every day. There is always something to learn, something to see and something to grow into.

Now, let’s dive in, shall we?

This week, we learned about the occupying army.
If you remember from last week, we established the church as an army. Well, this week, we went a little deeper, and I learnt that the Church is not just an army, but an occupying army.

Now, when you hear the word army, you might immediately think about soldiers going into battle, fighting and taking over territory. That is what we would describe as an invading army. An invading army enters a territory with the intention of fighting, conquering and taking over, and once its objective is achieved, it can leave.

An occupying army is different. An occupying army enters a territory and stays. Its responsibility is not simply to fight and conquer, but to maintain order, protect people, establish administration, build, serve and ensure that the systems of the government it represents remain in place.

And when I heard that, I began to see the Church a little differently.

The Church is an occupying army.

We have been commissioned to represent Christ here on earth. We are here to maintain the order and administration of God, to serve, to build, to protect, to restore and to represent our King in the places where He has positioned us while we wait for Him to return.

When I think about it this way, it changes how I see my everyday life.

The Church is not only what happens when we gather on Sunday. It is not only the building, the worship service, the sermon or the people we fellowship with. We are the Church, and we have been sent into different places to represent our King.

Your office can be your territory. Your school can be your territory. Your neighbourhood can be your territory. Your creative space can be your territory. Your business can be your territory. Wherever the Lord has positioned you, there is a responsibility attached to that position.

We are not just there to make money, build careers, achieve our personal goals and live comfortable lives. We have been sent there to protect, build and restore.

And honestly, I think this is one of those things that can make you look at your life differently.

One thing that really stood out to me is that as soldiers, we are not our own.
That sounds simple, but I think it is something we have to keep reminding ourselves of. If I am part of an occupying army, then I have been sent by someone. I belong to someone. I have a Commander.

The Bible tells us that we were bought with a price, which means that our lives are no longer simply about what we want, when we want it and how we want it. Our lives should carry the evidence that we belong to the Lord.

Our actions, our decisions, our relationships, our work and even the way we respond to the people around us should reflect the One who sent us.

Now, trust me, I know that sounds hard. Our wills can be very strong. Sometimes we do not understand what the Lord is doing, and sometimes, if we are being honest, we do not trust our Commander enough to simply follow His instructions.
But then I remember who our Commander is. The Lord made us, loved us and was willing to lay His life down for us. What kind of Commander does that? What kind of King humbles Himself and gives His life for the people He is leading?

Jesus did.

He did it willingly. He went to the cross, died for us and won the victory for us. So now, our responsibility is to follow His lead. And the beautiful thing is that He does not send us out and leave us to figure everything out by ourselves. He is in us, both to will and to do His good pleasure. He helps us do what He has called us to do. And I think that makes all the difference.

Another thing that really stood out to me was this idea of being compromised.
An occupying army becomes compromised when the soldiers begin listening to the people in the territory about the King they are supposed to represent, especially when those people do not know the King.
And I thought, hm. Because how often do we allow the opinions of people who do not know our King to determine how we live?
How often do we allow the culture around us to tell us what is normal, what is right, what is acceptable, what we should desire and even what our lives should look like, while forgetting that we have been sent by someone else?
When the occupying army starts taking its instructions from the citizens instead of the Commander, it becomes distracted from the reason it was sent in the first place.
And I think that is something worth paying attention to.

So, what does it actually look like to live as a soldier in this occupying army?

For me, one of the biggest things take is knowing God.
Purpose is not something I have to run around trying to discover by myself. As I come to know God, His character, His heart and His Word, I begin to understand what He wants me to do. The more I know the One who sent me, the more I understand the assignment.

Then there is accepting your post.
Every believer has a territory, a place where God has positioned them. Sometimes we are so busy looking for the next thing that we fail to recognise the assignment in the place we are already standing.
Maybe the office you complain about every day is part of your territory.
Maybe the people you interact with regularly are part of your assignment.
Maybe the industry you work in is a place where God wants you to represent Him.
Maybe the creative work you are doing is not just about the work itself but about the people you are meant to influence through it.

Wherever God has placed you, there is something He expects you to do there.

And that brings me to another part of the message that challenged me, responsibility over self interest.
As soldiers, the question is not always, “What do I want to do?” Sometimes the question is, “What does my Commander need done here?” What do the people around me need? What needs to be built? What needs to be protected? What needs to be restored? Who needs to be served?

That is a very different way of looking at life.

And finally, we are not meant to do this alone. There is accountability. There is authority. There is guidance. We are part of a body, and the Lord gives us shepherds and people who help us understand how to carry out the assignment He has given us.

Then came one of my favourite pictures from the message, the Good Samaritan.
The Good Samaritan found a man who had been beaten, wounded and left half dead on the roadside. He did not simply walk past him. He stopped. He dressed his wounds, took him to the inn, cared for him and made provision for his continued care.
And then, in a way, he went back and did it again.
That, to me, is such a beautiful picture of what the occupying army is meant to do.
We find people who have been wounded along the way. We help dress their wounds. We bring them to the inn, which represents the Church, where they can receive care, healing, teaching and growth. Then we go back out again and find someone else who needs to be served.

We are here to protect, build and restore. We are here to represent our King.
We are here until He returns.

Maybe that is the question I am taking away from this Sunday: What does it mean for me to be an occupying army officer in the place where God has positioned me?

Not just in church. Not just when I am surrounded by other believers. But in my everyday life, in my work, in my relationships, in the places I go and with the people I encounter.

If I really believe that I have been sent, then I have to start seeing my everyday life as part of the assignment.

So, that is my second Sunday Gem.

I am still learning, still thinking and still trying to understand what it means to live this out, but I think that is the beauty of this journey with the Lord. There is always more to learn, more to encounter, more to grow into and more of Christ to become.

Let’s see what the Lord teaches us next Sunday.

With Love,
Jaziel

Check out the sermon here:The Occupying Army

Scriptures to Consider

Luke 19:13
Ephesians 6:10–11
1 Corinthians 15:25–26
Joshua 10:24
2 Timothy 2:3

Ourthing: Sunday Gems

Hey friend 💜,

I know, I know, it’s been a while since I wrote something here, but well, let’s see what the Lord is doing in these times. (I apologize for the long read in advance. I know you missed me.😅)
I want to start a little series on this blog called Sunday Gems. At least, that is the name I came up with at 2:27pm on the 14th of September.

What is the plan for this series, one may ask? I am sure you are guessing it has something to do with church and, well, you guessed right. It has everything to do with church and what I am studying, learning and picking up along the way.

Let me give you a little introduction to me and church. I have always been a church girl, and a few years ago, when I moved away from my home city to Accra, it meant looking for a church, right? Then the Lord placed me and planted me at Ephesus Gatherings Worldwide and gave me Prophet Edem Julius-Cudjoe and Mrs. Deborah Julius-Cudjoe as my Pastors and Spiritual Parents. You know there is definitely more to this story, but this is what you get for now.

Anyway, the Ephesus family is a place where we learn and grow. My Pastor describes the local church like an army barracks, because an army barracks has hospitals, schools, restaurants and all these different things, and the whole idea is that you are trained and raised as a holistic person. That is how I see Ephesus, a place where we are being trained, raised and equipped to grow up and conquer the world for Christ.

With that short introduction out of the way, let me tell you a little more about this series. We are called as Christians to be a city set on a hill that cannot be hidden, and we are also called to be the salt of the earth, and one main idea that runs through both of these metaphors is influence. We are called to influence, we are called to be Christ’s influencers, and I have been thinking about this a lot, especially after a message that was preached at church recently, which I will probably be digesting here too. I found myself asking, what can I do to be an influence? What does it actually look like to influence the people around me for Christ? And somehow, this series was born.

So follow along as I share and digest with you some of the gems I pick up from church every week. I cannot promise exactly when I will be posting, but I will do my best to post before another Sunday comes around. Also, I will still be posting my regular Ourthing posts too.

Now, let’s dive into what I learned on Sunday, shall we?

When I was in university and even in recent times, I genuinely thought my SHS days were much more spiritual than my life at the time because I used to pray a lot, read my Bible a whole lot, go on love walks with the Lord and just spend so much time with Him. I used to feel sad when I thought about how my “spirituality” had gone down, and I would sometimes look back at that version of myself and almost wish I could go back to those days.

But something my Pastor said on Sunday really caught my attention. The Lord, through my Pastor, drew my attention to the fact that as believers, our path is supposed to shine brighter and brighter, and sometimes the enemy loves it when we remain in the past and glory in past victories and past encounters. There is something about constantly looking back at what God did yesterday that can make us miss what He is doing today and what He wants to do tomorrow.

The message was titled What to Do After an Encounter, and as I listened, one of the things I kept thinking about was the Word. Everything the Lord will do in our lives will be through His Word, because God is always speaking and His Word carries His thoughts, His nature, His instructions and His life. The devil also knows just how important the Word is, which is why he enjoys stealing it from us. He knows that if he can take the Word before it takes root in us, he can interfere with what that Word is meant to produce.

This is why I found the whole idea of information versus illumination so interesting. Sometimes we hear the Word and all we have received is information. We heard the message, we understood what was said and we can even repeat what the preacher said, but there is a difference between knowing something and having light come on inside you. Illumination is that moment when something you have heard suddenly becomes alive to you and you realise, “Ohhhh, this is what God is saying.” To move from information to illumination, there has to be a willingness to listen and listen again, to listen listeningly, as my Pastor put it, with our minds receptive and our attention given to what is being said, even to the point of writing things down as the message is coming.

And then there is the matter of brooding over the Word. I loved this picture because just like a hen sits on her eggs and stays there, keeping them warm until what is inside develops, there is a way we also have to sit on the Word we have received. We cannot hear something on Sunday and expect it to automatically transform us simply because we heard it once. We have to meditate on it, pray about it, fast, think about it, speak it and return to it until the seed of that Word begins to produce something in us. There has to be a deliberate process of allowing the Word to develop instead of allowing the distractions of everyday life to steal it away.

This also connected with the conversation around neuroplasticity and faith, because the way we continually expose our minds to the Word of God can begin to change the way we think. As we meditate on the truth of God’s Word, our thought patterns can be rewired, and we can begin to move away from old ways of thinking, old habits and even old patterns of sin. Sometimes we are asking God to change our behaviour when He is also trying to transform the way we think, because what happens in our minds eventually finds its way into our lives.

Then came what I found to be a very practical reminder, the 72 hour rule. The emphasis was on not allowing what we hear to sit untouched for days because there is so much happening around us that if we do not return to the Word we received, meditate on it and begin to apply it, the distractions of everyday life can easily steal it. This made me think about how often I have listened to a really powerful sermon on Sunday, felt convicted and excited about what God was saying, and then by Wednesday I can barely remember what the message was about. The Word was there, but I did not brood over it.

And I think this is something I am learning to do more intentionally. I am learning to make time to spend listening to the Word of God through messages that are preached, but also through spending time in the Bible for myself and actually thinking about what the Word says. I do not want to simply collect messages and sermons in my mind. I want the Word to become light to me, and I want that light to produce something in my life.

The more I think about it, the more I realise why the Word is so important. If the Lord is going to do something in my life, He will do it through His Word, and if the devil knows this, then it makes sense that one of the things he will try to do is steal the Word before it can take root. So I have to take seriously what God says. I have to protect what I hear, return to it, meditate on it and allow it to take root in me.

And maybe this is one of the biggest things I took from Sunday: an encounter is not the end. An encounter is an invitation to preparation, responsibility, growth and a deeper relationship with God. I cannot keep living on yesterday’s encounters when there is fresh Word, fresh light and fresh grace available for today.

My path is supposed to shine brighter and brighter.

There is more to learn, more to encounter, more to grow into and more of Christ to become.

So, that is my first Sunday Gem.

Let’s see what the Lord teaches us next Sunday.


(Ps: I am still thinking of other cool names for this series so don’t be surprised if the name changes…😅

With love,
Jaziel 💜

Check out the sermon here: WHAT TO DO AFTER AN ENCOUNTER

Scriptures to Consider

Matthew 24:45

Isaiah 55

Psalm 103:20

2 Corinthians 10:4–5

Matthew 13

Mark 4

Luke 8

Psalm 45:1

Isaiah 55:9–10

Ourthing: For Love’s Sake

Hey friends,

This season gently calls us back to remembrance. To the moment God chose nearness.

Every time I sit with the story of Christ’s birth, I am undone by the humility of it all. That Jesus, fully God, agreed to enter humanity at its smallest point. From zygote to embryo.
From womb to baby. Limited. Dependent. Held.

He was born into conditions that made no sense for a King. A manger. A borrowed space. A childhood lived under threat. He grew, learned, waited, endured.

And knowing the end of the story, He still chose the Cross.
All of it. For love. For YOU.

As we remember His birth, may we not stop at the manger.
May we remember the love that carried Him from heaven to earth and from earth to the Cross.
And because of His finished work on the Cross, we now boldly come into relationship with our Father.
No fear. No veil. No distance. Just love.

What a gift. What a love.

Merry Christmas from itsOurthing.

Jesus still remains the reason for the season.

Scripture References
John 3:16
John 1:14
Philippians 2:6–8
Romans 5:8
Hebrews 4:16

Ourthing: The Bigger Teddy Bear

On my way to watch a play recently, I took a bottle of water with me just in case I got thirsty.

Halfway through the ride, we got stuck under a traffic light. The Uber driver mentioned he wanted to buy water, but before he could, the light turned green and we had to move.

That’s when a small battle began inside me. Should I offer him my water and stay thirsty until I got back home from the production, or should I just keep it?

The Holy Spirit was on my case for a solid three minutes.
Eventually, I gave in and offered him my bottle, secretly hoping he would reject it because it wasn’t cold.
But he gladly accepted it and thanked me. I was a little bummed.

When I got to the amphitheatre, I was greeted with bottles of water for free. And for some reason, everyone kept asking if I needed more water even after I had already taken one.

It was a sweet trust moment for me.
I actually felt warm inside, like a hug.

It reminded me of that picture on social media where Jesus is asking a little girl to give Him her small teddy bear while He is holding a much much bigger one behind His back.

I realised that if I had not given my water away, I would have missed out on the free gift of water God had already prepared for me.

Most times we wrestle with obedience and listening to the Holy Spirit because we do not trust enough that His plans for us are far better than our own.

God has big things for us and He only asks that we trust Him with the little we have even when it feels like so much to let go of.

He always has a much bigger teddy bear waiting behind His back if only we will trust Him.

I am learning to trust Him daily and truly knowing Him comes from spending time with Him in His Word.

I hope this encourages you to spend time with Him too and to trust Him at His Word.
He always has much more to offer when you trust Him.

With love,
Jaziel 💜

Scriptures to Consider

Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV)
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.

Ephesians 3:20 (KJV)
Now unto Him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us.

Isaiah 55:8–9 (NIV)
For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.

Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

Ourthing: Drink Water, Think About Jesus, and Sleep

Growing up, I used to have these silly little headaches. I’m not sure why, but after school, almost every day in primary school, I’d come home and pop a paracetamol like it was part of my after-school snack. Eventually, my mom noticed and to be honest, I think I had become slightly addicted. Sometimes, I’d take it just in case the headache would come. Preventative vibes😅

My mother being my mother, promptly confiscated every single paracetamol in the house. From that day, her prescription changed:
“Drink water, think about Jesus and sleep. It will go.”

At first, I thought it was punishment. But that phrase became her anthem every time I complained of a headache. Sometimes she’d say,
“Forget about it. Don’t think about it. You’ll be fine.”
Or
“Think about Jesus.”

This used to really annoy me. I remember once as a teenager I said to her, “You don’t care about me. Every time I complain, you just say drink water and sleep or stop thinking about it. Think about Jesus.”
Mama, I am sorry Okk 😅

Don’t get me wrong, if I was seriously unwell, we went to the hospital. And it turns out a lot of those headaches were from eye strain. I used to break my glasses a lot. A story for another day 🤭

But here’s why I’m telling you this.

That phrase — drink water, think about Jesus and sleep — stuck with me. And even though I didn’t like it, it worked. Maybe not instantly, but eventually. Whenever I shifted my focus to something else, especially Jesus, the headache would ease up.

Years later, I was in church when my pastor shared a scripture from Romans 4:19 to 21. He talked about how Abraham, though his body was basically as good as dead, did not consider it. Instead, he held on to God’s promise.

And I had this aha moment.
That’s what my mother had been saying all along.

Here’s the thing. When we’re going through something, pain, confusion, heartbreak, disappointment, it’s so easy to be consumed by it. It becomes all we think about. It starts to define our days and occupy our thoughts. And without even realizing it, we push Jesus to the very back.

But the more we focus on the problem, the bigger it becomes. That’s the enemy’s playground. He’ll magnify it until it feels like the only thing in your life. But the truth is, God is infinitely bigger than whatever issue you’re facing. And He’s still doing other amazing things in your life. You just might not see them because your gaze is fixed elsewhere.

So maybe today’s reminder is simple.
Take your eyes off the headache.
Whatever that headache is for you — emotional, spiritual, physical — shift your focus.
Look to Jesus.

Forget the shame, the pain, the weight.
Forget what didn’t work out.
Forget the fear, the sin, the endless what-ifs.

Let your gaze be on Him and Him alone and watch everything else lose its grip.

“Cast all your cares on Him, for He cares for you.” (1 Peter 5:7)

Consider Not the issue.
Consider Him.
His promise.
His faithfulness.
His love.
His word that cannot lie.

With love,
Jaziel 💜

Scriptures to Consider

Romans 4:19–21
“Without weakening in his faith, he faced the fact that his body was as good as dead—since he was about a hundred years old—and that Sarah’s womb was also dead. Yet he did not waver through unbelief regarding the promise of God, but was strengthened in his faith and gave glory to God, being fully persuaded that God had power to do what he had promised.”

1 Peter 5:7
“Cast all your burdens on him because he cares for you.”

Isaiah 26:3
“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.”

Hebrews 12:1–2
“Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith. For the joy that was set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”

Philippians 4:6–7
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

Philippians 4:8
“Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.”

Ourthing: God, Fried Rice, and other Trust Matters

A lesson on trust

Hey friends,
I know you haven’t heard from me in like 2 months. Don’t worry—I miss you too. It’s not that I haven’t wanted to write… it’s just that I’ve been learning. A lot. And sometimes when you’re learning, you don’t even know what to say yet, you know?

But anyway, let me share something I’ve been learning:


GOD CAN BE TRUSTED.

Yep, that’s the lesson.

And before you scroll past thinking, “Yeah, yeah, we know that,” pause.

You might remember—somewhere around November 2024 or maybe the start of the year (honestly, time is a blur)—I shared how I thought God lied to me. Yeah. That. I remember saying it and feeling so conflicted. And if you’ve followed me for a while, you know how that season went.
But looking back now, I realise one reason I didn’t trust Him was simply this:
I didn’t really believe He could be trusted.

I know that sounds wild. But hear me out.
Trust doesn’t just fall from the sky. It’s built. It’s gained. And it’s gained when you know someone—like really know them. Their ways. Their voice. Their character. Their silence.

Growing up, I believed anything my parents said. Especially my dad. If I asked him for Fried Rice (yes, capital F capital R), I believed he’d bring it. And he always did.
I didn’t care whether he had money or not—my child brain didn’t factor in budgets or bank accounts. All I knew was:
This is my father. He said he would. So he will.
Because he had done it before. Tried and tested. Fried Rice was my proof of trustworthiness.

Now I know this sounds like a whole Fried Rice sermon, but stay with me.

The point is, trust is easier when someone has a track record.
And guess what?
God has a track record.
The only reason I know this now is because I’m learning to look for it—in His Word.

The Bible isn’t just a book with hard-to-pronounce names and rules. It’s a record. A storybook of flawed human beings who lived on this same broken earth—and how God came through for them, over and over again.

Noah.
Abraham.
Hagar.

Hannah.
David.
Ruth.
Mary.
Peter.
Paul.
You.
Me.

Story after story. Page after page.
Tried and tested.

And just like how I knew I could trust my dad to bring Fried Rice because I knew him, I’m learning that I can trust God because I’m getting to know Him more deeply. And when you know someone, really know them, you start to trust not just what they do, but who they are.

And God?
He’s good.
He’s kind.
He’s faithful.
He’s consistent.
And—He’s trustworthy.

Maybe you’re in a season where trusting God feels hard. Maybe you’ve been waiting so long, it’s easier to believe He forgot. Or maybe, like me, you’re just beginning to really learn who He is again.
Wherever you are, let me remind you:
You can trust Him.

Because He’s not just good when it’s easy. He’s not just faithful when it’s fast.
He’s faithful. Period.
Tried. Tested. Trustworthy.

And if you need a reminder, think about Fried Rice. 😂
If an earthly father can be trusted to deliver lunch,
How much more… your Heavenly Father?

With love,
Jaziel 💜

Scriptures to Hold On To:

• “The Lord is trustworthy in all he promises and faithful in all he does.”
— Psalm 145:13b (NIV)


•“Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for He who promised is faithful.”
— Hebrews 10:23 (NIV)


• “God is not a man, that he should lie, nor a son of man, that he should change his mind. Does he speak and then not act? Does he promise and not fulfill?”
— Numbers 23:19 (NIV)


• “Even when we are faithless, He remains faithful, for He cannot deny Himself.”
— 2 Timothy 2:13 (NKJV)


• “Those who know Your name trust in You, for You, Lord, have never forsaken those who seek You.”
— Psalm 9:10 (NIV)

Ourthing: DO IT AFRAID

Hey friend,

Happy New Year once again! Yes, I know—it’s been a while since you heard from me. But I’m here now, and I truly hope that 2025 has started strong for you.

The new year usually starts with all the hype—resolutions, vision boards, fresh goals or even registering with the gym to get in shape.
But here we are, almost through February, and if we’re being honest, some of us are still standing in the same place we were in 2015!.

I’ve been there too—writing out all these plans and goals, feeling excited for a while, then suddenly… nothing. No action. No progress. Just vibes.

And you know one major reason why?


Fear.!
Yes, Fear.

It creeps in so subtly, especially after you set your goals. Maybe it’s the fear of failure, so you’d rather not try at all. Or —plot twist—the fear that you’ll actually succeed, and you don’t feel ready for what comes next.

Fear is a Master at keeping people stuck. It stifles growth, kills progress, and ultimately stops you from stepping into what God has already prepared for you. And let’s be clear: fear is not from God.

The enemy does not want you to move forward, so he throws fear at you to paralyze you. And sometimes, it shows up in the weirdest ways. Look at the Israelites—God did crazy miracles to deliver them from Egypt, literally split the Red Sea for them, yet when they got close to the Promised Land, they froze.

Moses sent spies to check out the land, and instead of focusing on how good it was, they focused on how small they felt. “We look like grasshoppers compared to them,” they said. Imagine that! Because of fear, they almost gave up on a land that was already theirs.

And that’s exactly what fear does. It makes you doubt what’s already yours.

But here’s the thing: this is a new year. A fresh start. And you are not about to let fear keep you stuck again. So whatever that thing is—starting the business, going back to school, serving in that ministry, applying for that job—

Do It Afraid!

Take the step. Even if your hands are shaking. Even if your voice is trembling. Even if you don’t feel ready. Just take the step.

And here’s the best part? Fear melts away in His love. The more you walk with God, the less fear has power over you.

So, here’s to 2025—a year where we refuse to be held back and we Do It Afraid.

Until the next blog, stay blessed and move!
Hugs 🤗,
Jiji

Scriptures to hold on to:

  • 2 Timothy 1:7 – “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.”
  • Joshua 1:9 – “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”
  • Isaiah 41:10– “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
  • ⁠Numbers 13:31-33 &
    Numbers 14:1-4

Ourthing: When Words Broke the Glass

It was almost like every other day on campus. The only difference was that I was a year older.

I got a lot of text messages from my friends that morning. Even those who hadn’t reached out in ages sent their wishes. Then, I got a call: “Madam, you have a delivery waiting for you.”

Confused but intrigued, I hurried downstairs from my student hall, wondering who could have sent me something. To my surprise, it was a cake.

I asked around to find out who sent it, but no one seemed to know. With no answers, I decided to keep it until later. When my roommate came back and saw the cake, she suggested we cut it and invite a few friends over. What started as a simple gesture soon turned into a casual “drink-up” situation.

Now, I was notoriously clumsy with fragile items like glasses and plates. My roommate, knowing this, teased me relentlessly: “I know you’ll definitely break the glass.” I laughed and played along: “Yes, o! I feel it too. This glass is going to break.” We kept joking about it throughout the evening.

When the night wound down, I went to the sink to wash the dishes. That’s when it happened. I picked up the glass, and it shattered in my hand—without much effort, as if it had been waiting for that moment. My roommate didn’t believe it was an accident, but for me, it was a striking revelation: the undeniable power of words.

That day, I made a firm resolve: Words are powerful, and I must be careful what I say.

But as the years passed, life happened, and that resolve began to fade. The incident lingered in my memory, but the urgency to guard my words slipped away.

You’d think someone who had experienced such a vivid example of the power of words would go through life declaring positive truths and victories over themselves. But honestly, this remains one of my greatest struggles.

It’s easy to speak what’s obvious—what you see or feel in the moment. And let’s be real: life often serves up more negatives than positives. Speaking life into difficult situations can feel almost unnatural. Strangely, I’ve also found it easier to speak positively about others than about myself.

There have been dark moments when my mind was filled with negative thoughts—lies I knew weren’t from God but from the enemy. Instead of resisting them with the truth of God’s Word, I stayed silent. And in those moments, the lies grew louder, pulling me down.

Here’s what I’ve learned: the enemy’s power lies in his suggestions. He has no authority unless we agree with him through our thoughts or words. When we align with his lies, we empower them.

The opposite is true with God. He has already spoken good things over us—unchanging, undeniable truths. But He needs us to align with Him by speaking His Word, not just thinking it.

The Bible says in Zephaniah 3:17 that God sings over us with delight. His melody heals, soothes, and restores. But we must join His harmony by declaring His truths out loud.

The bottom line? Silence is not your ally in the battle of your mind. You must speak. The enemy’s lies may persist, but we tear them down with the truth of God’s Word.

This is a reminder to immerse yourself in God’s Word and build a relationship with Him. After all, how can you speak life if you don’t know what to say?

“The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit” (Proverbs 18:21). Life and death both bear fruit. Choose life. Speak life.

Scripture References

  1. Proverbs 18:21
    “The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”
  2. Matthew 12:36-37
    “But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken. For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned.”
  3. Proverbs 15:4
    “The soothing tongue is a tree of life, but a perverse tongue crushes the spirit.”
  4. James 3:5-6
    “Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.”
  5. Ephesians 4:29
    “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”
  6. Zephaniah 3:17
    “The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing.”

Ourthing: Did God Lie To Me?

I’ve been thinking… have you ever felt like God let you down? Like, you thought He said something would happen, but it didn’t?
That happened to me not too long ago.

During the COVID lockdown period (when some of us became very spiritual🤧), I was convinced I’d heard God’s voice.
In that moment, I remember God telling me to pray concerning the matter, but like most of us, I started.. and stopped along the line.

In that season, I had very interesting dreams supporting what I heard. A lot of people I trusted to be spiritual also confirmed it. I even told my sisters because I was so excited for this upcoming episode of my life.

But as always, things didn’t happen like I pictured it in my head (you know how wild my imaginations can be” )

“God, didn’t you tell me?”
I felt betrayed, like God had lied to me…that He broke my heart.

Fast forward mannnyyy years later (let’s say 3years 🥶), I went to church (after months of not going 🌝) and in the middle of the sermon, My Pastor said “God did not lie to you”.
How did my pastor know? I hadn’t told a soul about how I was feeling. (Because truly, how could I say with my Ghanaian Christian mouth that God lied to me😞). My heart started to race as he kept speaking, like he was somehow putting words to the things I’d been keeping to myself. With every line of the sermon, it felt like he was gently peeling back layers I didn’t realize were so visible.

I found myself tearing up—I felt truly seen by God. It was as if He was gently addressing the unbelief I’d been wrestling with all this time, letting me know it mattered to Him.

Later, I decided to re-evaluate the situation instead of just tucking it away like I usually do.

1.⁠ ⁠Did I truly “hear” God or was I desperate?
2.⁠ ⁠Did my “hearing God” align with Scripture?
3.⁠ ⁠Did the opinions of people sway my thinking?
4.⁠ ⁠Did I actively apply the word I had heard? Was I obedient?
5.⁠ ⁠Was I putting my own timelines on God’s promises?

It was hard answering these questions. After some time, it hit me:

1.⁠ ⁠God never lies; He’s not human that He should lie.
2.⁠ ⁠God never speaks outside of His Word. (The Bible).
3.⁠ ⁠The devil distorts God’s character. He does his best to misrepresent God to His children and vice versa.
4.⁠ ⁠Prophecies are for spiritual warfare. We can not assume that a prophecy it will automatically come to pass!

5. A day to God is like a thousand years, and a thousand years like a day. God’s timelines are different from ours.

It hasn’t been an easy pill to swallow , but with good teachings and guidance, I have been able to grasp these truths.

I am sure most of you want to know exactly what the gist is, but that is for another day 🤣.

The bottom line is,
God doesn’t lie! He’s always True. HE IS TRUTH!

Until next time…
Stay blessed and Keep trusting!

Hugs 🤗,
Jiji

Bible Reminders

  • 2 Peter 1:19 (KJV) – God’s word is the Sure word of prophecy 
• 1 Timothy 1:18 (NKJV) – Wage war with prophecy!
  • Numbers 23:19- God is not man that He should lie!
  • ⁠ 2 Peter 3:8, (you can add vrs 9 😉)- God’s timelines.
  • ⁠Genesis 3:1-5- the devil distorts word and character
  • ⁠Revelation 12:10- the accuser of the brethren is defeated! Hallelujah!

I am back…Kind Of🙊😅

Hey friend!

Long time no talk! I know, I know, it’s been ages since I last posted on “It’s Our Thing.” Life got busy, but I’m back!

I’ve missed sharing my thoughts and experiences with you. You know how life can get crazy? But one thing remains true: with Christ, life makes sense.

In the coming weeks, I’ll share some stories from the past few years and some scriptures that have inspired me. No promises, but I’ll do my best!

Thanks for sticking around! Stay blessed, and keep trusting!

Hugs,
Jiji